The purpose of a prostate massage is to excrete fluid from the inflamed prostate, which is believed to relieve the inflammation. A prostate massage can be performed either by medical personnel or at home; however considering the delicate nature of the procedure, it is best to proceed with caution as an inexperienced prostate massage can cause significant damage. Records of prostate massage being performed for medical reasons have been around since the early part of the 19 th century, however; it is not a treatment option that received much credence until much later, during the 1990's. Today, although it is much more common than it used to be, the subject of prostate massage still remains quite controversial.

A prostate massage is performed by massaging the prostate and can be accomplished in more than one way. The most common way in which a prostate massage is performed is by direct contact through the anus.

Currently there are varying opinions regarding the manner which a prostate massage should be performed and if it should be performed at all. A great number of people recommend a vigorous prostate massage, however medical personnel have pointed out that a vigorous prostate massage can create a serious medical situation which can become fatal.

Many medical practitioners feel a prostate massage is a safe and effective way to treat a condition known as benign prostate hyperplasia, which is an enlarged prostate. There is some speculation as to whether a prostate massage should involve a vigorous or gentle massage, however; most health professionals recommend a gentle prostate massage in order to conduct a prostate milking as a vigorous approach has been known to cause serious and life threatening internal damage.

In some cases a doctor will perform a prostate massage in order to obtain a sample of prostate fluid for testing purposes. Men who are not accustomed to this procedure may feel uncomfortable with a prostate massage. The procedure can also be performed at home and can either be performed alone or with the assistance of another person. Devices are marketed for the sole purpose of assisting an individual with performing his own prostate massage and are commonly called prostate massagers. In some cases, a spouse or significant other may wish to assist with a prostate massage. For this type of procedure the other person inserts their finger into the anus of the male, finds the prostate gland and massages gently. The prostate gland is located about two inches inside the rectum on the front wall, close to the penis. The prostate gland itself is about the size of a walnut, so it it is usually fairly easy to find. It is best for a lubricant to be used. Many physicians also recommend that a condom be used to reduce the risk of introducing bacteria to the prostate gland. Latex medical gloves are also recommended as a guard against bacteria introduction. A rolling motion of the finger or massaging device is used to excrete the fluid from the prostate gland.

Some studies indicate that men who masturbate or ejaculate frequently, more than five times per week, during their twenties suffer from less instances of prostate gland disorders such as enlarged prostate, inflammation of the prostate gland and prostate cancer. The publication of studies has led to a tremendous amount of controversy regarding prostate massage, as some people have concluded that it may be a way to prevent prostate gland disorders, when regular forms of sexual expression are unavailable or when a man does not wish to masturbate, possibly for moral reasons. The subject of prostate massage is extremely controversial, as some people feel it is an acceptable medical practice while others believe it is no different from masturbating, which many people find morally unacceptable.

Some men find that a prostate massage is also an erotic form of sexual interaction and many people believe that a prostate massage can provide numerous benefits. One common belief is that a prostate massage will prevent the buildup of semen in the prostate, thus making it unnecessary for the man to ejaculate at other times. Men who partake in a prostate massage state that the orgasm is much more intense than an orgasm with traditional sex or masturbation and it is frequently recommended as a form of sexual interaction when the other partner is either unavailable or the male simply does not wish to engage in other forms of sexual intercourse for whatever reason. Other individuals simply find a prostate milking to be an excellent form of sexual pleasure and equate it to manipulation of the female G-spot.

Generally during a prostate massage, the release of the semen occurs more in flow rather than a regular ejaculation. Some people recommend masturbation along with prostate massage in order to increase the amount of semen that is released as well as the intensity of the pleasure involved.

Individuals who take part in a prostate massage should be aware that there are some health risks involving if the massage is done too vigorously. If there is any blood present in the fluid that is expelled, the prostate massage should be stopped immediately and if the blood returns in the urine or semen, the individual should seek professional medical help. Individuals should also be aware of any pain in their lower abdomen, as this may also be a sign that internal damage has occurred as a result of the prostate massage.